Friendzone Proof: Friendship to Relationship - Cultivate Attraction, Become Desireable, Get the Girl (Dating Advice for Men to Attract Women) by King Patrick

Author:King, Patrick [King, Patrick]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi, azw
Publisher: Plain Key Media
Published: 2015-06-26T16:00:00+00:00

9.

Take a leap of faith to leap out of the Friendzone.

As I mentioned earlier, the problem with men who find themselves in the Friendzone is that they are afraid .

They are afraid that the woman who is the center of their affections will reject them and make a fool of them. They are afraid of showing her who they really are and what they are really interested in. It all stems from the same thing: the fear of rejection and the awkward and humiliating consequences thereafter.

Hey, I'm not going to fault you for fearing rejection. Who likes being made to feel like a fool?

But if you want to be successful in avoiding the Friendzone and becoming more than just friends with the woman you're interested in, you have to overcome your fear, get off the fence, and take that shot .

The classic strategy of being her best friend first so she will fall in love with you may work in the movies , but it doesn't work in real life. In many cases, you are just watering somebody else’s garden.

You put in all the work to make her trust men again and somebody else swoops in and reaps the advantages of the work you’ve done.

Still, too many guys time after time do fall into this same pattern simply because it is the path of least resistance and it enables them not to put themselves out there.

It works exceedingly rarely, and it's probably not going to work in your situation. You’re not an exception, and neither is she.

You have to lay it out there and make her know, in no uncertain terms, that you are interested in her. You want something more than just friendship.

She’ll be oblivious if you let her.

You probably know the cliché about assumptions : when you assume, you make an ass out of you and me.

When you assume, you are thinking that what one person sees is exactly what you see.

Different people look at the world in different ways. We all come from different places and have had different experiences. Just because something is as bright as daylight to you does not automatically mean it's equally clear to somebody else.

If you assume that she knows you like her, and that you are demonstrating it to her in ways that she understands, stop now .

Women don’t like to assume that about most of their male friends, and they also like to live in willful obliviousness . This makes sense for them, because most of their male friends would probably have sex with them given the chance, and living in that reality and assuming that truth would be tough to do on a daily basis.

So if you are subtly presenting yourself to her, don’t assume that she gets it . If you let her, she will be oblivious to avoid a potentially awkward situation.

You have to be obvious and spell it out to her. Don't think that you only need to show her a few pieces of the puzzle and she will put it all together.

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